Talking to Masters
Show your Sir the respect he deserves!
R-E-S-P-E-C-T!
One of the most important things to keep in mind when you are
interacting with Masters is that good Masters have worked hard to get
there. Good Masters carry heavy responsibilities and they take them
very seriously. Good Masters deserve your respect. When meeting a
Master for the first time, you should give him the benefit of the doubt
and treat him with respect until he shows that he doesn't deserve
it.
If in subsequent exchanges you realize the respect is undeserved, you should no longer feel obligated to demonstrate it. Of course, if a man doesn't deserve any respect from you, you should just stay the fuck away from him. You don't want a man like that holding your leash!
Nobody, regardless of whether or not they claim the title of "Master", is automatically given respect like some kind of birthright. They have to earn it by "walking the walk". A Master who has demonstrated that He is unworthy of your respect need not be addressed with respect. Why show respect if you don't feel it?
Using the Term "Sir"
When speaking to a Master, or any Dom for that matter, it is expected that you address him as "Sir". Using the honorific "Sir" shows him that you respect him as a man and as a Dominant.
Although it is sadly uncommon to see, even in the best of social
circles, I think it is appropriate for one Master to refer to another
as "Sir" as well. It is a way for one Brother to recognize another. I
have learned from experience not to address men I don't already know as
"Sir" because they inevitably assume that I am a boy. Grrrrrr!
Some Masters expect to hear "Sir" very frequently in your speech;
others expect it less often. I almost never will tell a boy he needs to call me Sir, unless he's a real newbie and just learning what's expected. It means a lot more when it comes voluntarily and not because I asked for it. I feel really good when a boy
who I know calls me "Sir" because I know it's from his heart. Depending on the situation at the time, it
will either put a little smile of contentment on my face or it will put
a little twinge at the base of my cock. You can give that little twinge
to your Master also, as part of your slavery.
Should I Call Him "Master"?
Probably not, unless you know him well and he actively plays the role of Master in your life. Only the Master whose collar you wear should be addressed as "Master". Other Masters may be addressed using the term "Master" followed by his first name, such as "Master Eric".
Of course, not all masters like to be called "Master". Some would
rather you stick with "Sir". Some even prefer you to use their given
name. That's too informal for me; I don't like my boys to address me so
familiarly. Just "Sir" works for me in most situations.
Exceptions can be made at the Master's discretion, of course. He
makes the rules, so he can change the rules. Maybe one day he wants you
to call him "Master" all day long. If that's what the man wants, give
the man what he wants.
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